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Making them go faster reduces the amount of bad communication -- including the risk of outright blunders. A long, drawn-out fair fight is no good at all. But a short, "I always win, you always lose" thing isn't a panacea, either. It may work in the military -- sometimes. In the home seldom, not even as parent/kid. Because it's not communication at all, really, and the underlying communication didn't happen. Your plan works, because it IS efficient communication, because you were able to to do the ground work in advance. Brilliant idea -- but in my world, I think I need a plan for de novo arguments a lot more. (I could be wrong!) BTW -- I don't see any reason to limit your plan to relationship conflict. I wish we could apply it to politics. http://getitdone.quickanddirtytips.com/resolve-relationship-conflict-quickly.aspx?commentid=16676#Comments http://getitdone.quickanddirtytips.com/resolve-relationship-conflict-quickly.aspx?commentid=16676#Comments Sat, 25 Apr 2009 04:41:43 GMT FaithAnn Productivity I agree with Rose... there is NO way this would work in my house... no way... http://getitdone.quickanddirtytips.com/resolve-relationship-conflict-quickly.aspx?commentid=16675#Comments http://getitdone.quickanddirtytips.com/resolve-relationship-conflict-quickly.aspx?commentid=16675#Comments Sat, 25 Apr 2009 03:20:15 GMT Rose Productivity Yeah, sure, Stever. Don't you know that my boyfriend is really stupid and that he doesn't listen? So you think I can make him look at a sheet? He'll tear it up, throw it in the air like confetti and then we'll fight about how disrespectful that was and how he doesn't care! Hehehe... 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